Rate Your Dates

Running the dating gauntlet or just found a newbie guy? Check the boxes below that apply to your "Dates."
Have a hubbie or a long-time mate and and have questions? ScORE YOUR "SQUEEZE"
How to Score
First, review issues or general dating experiences (or your new guy). Check the boxes that apply. For example...
Click the check box if this applies to your "Squeeze"
Scroll down list, review the other items checking appropriate boxes, then...
Click to Score or Re-Score with changes
You can make changes and then click WWLS to re-calculate.
Need more help? INSTRUCTIONS

What Would Lucille Say    Clear form to all blank   

My dating experiences
Deduction
1.
He owns a penis, and it does most of his thinking (no one is perfect).
1.0
Go to 2.
2.
Age: I believe age is just a number.
1.0
Point
2. Age: Think long-term about generation gaps. Daddy issues may be at work or you're dating young to feel young, which will only make you feel older later one. What will 10 years from now look like?
3.
Appearance: Without instant appeal, I'm not interested.
2.0
Points
3. Appearance: The good parts are on the inside. Physical attraction is important, but not as much as quality. Love at first sight very rarely works out. If you dismiss someone for no first sight 'POW' you may miss a great guy. Or, he could become a great friend.
4.
Bad Boys: Only want to party... but I like bad boys.
2.0
Points
4. Bad Boys: He's dangerous and fun now, but he's fun with everyone! Make sure you're dating a grownup who'll eventually grow out of his bad boy phase and be the hunk you want long-term.
5.
Children (wants): We may differ, but I can work with this.
5.0
Points
5. Children: This is a game breaker. No matter how hot, rich, fun or interesting they are, you can't survive if this doesn’t match your desires.
6.
Child Issues: I can't deal with kids, custody challenges.
2.0
Points
6. Child Issues: His focus will not be on you. If this is okay today, know long term you’ll suffer. You narrow the field for men without kids, but this is your call.
7.
Commitment: It may take a while, but I can fix this.
1.0
Point
7. Commitment: You think you can fix a man or make him commit? Oh, honey it will only happen if he wants it. Don't push the issue early on or you'll we waving bye-bye.
8.
Commonality: Common interests are nice, but opposites attract.
1.0
Point
8. Commonality: Opposites distract. You have to build common ground to become best friends and lovers long-term.
9.
Communication: Really don’t listen or interrupt me (annoying!).
1.0
Point
10.
Compliments: Don’t notice me, talk about themselves.
1.0
Point
11.
Confidence: Insecurity or big ego are turnoffs.
2.0
Points
11. Confidence: He could be just shy if he seems insecure. Encourage him if you like him. As far as ego, do you really want a man without an ego? Dig deeper, he could be a very strong ally.
12.
Connection: Hard to connect at first, but will improve with time.
1.0
Point
12. Connection: If he's not that into you, there's little you can do. There are men out there that really want to get to know you - just ask your girlfriends. Time many not help.
13.
Conversation: Not good at small talk, poor listener.
1.0
Point
14.
Details: dirty hands, sloppy appearance, bad teeth, etc.
1.0
Point
15.
Education: Too little or too much (know-it-all) is a problem.
1.0
Point
15. Education: This can cause a big gap. Does he have common sense, street smarts, or genuine ambition? These trump a sheepskin any day.
16.
Employment: No job, no ambition, no thanks. I like 'em rich.
3.0
Points
16. Employment: This is always listed as very important by women. A… J, O ↦ a B… are the 3 things women want most in men. Hope you aren't looking for a sugar daddy or just money. A great poor man can become rich and will still be great, but a jerk with money will always be a jerk.
17.
Family: Poor/no relationship with mom/dad/siblings.
2.0
Points
17. Family: This is a good thing to find out early. Great moms raise great husbands. A tough upbringing means they'll have to work harder to relate to women. Do they relate to or respect women now?
18.
Finances: He expects me to pay, doesn't buy small/thoughtful gifts.
1.0
Point
19.
Follow-through: Doesn't call back or keep promises.
1.0
Point
20.
Friends: He doesn't introduce me or have any.
2.0
Points
21.
Future: We’re on different paths, but love will see us through .
3.0
Points
21. Future: You can take different paths, but you must be on the same journey with a shared destination. Love can only take you so far.
22.
Habits: A little alcohol or recreational pot is ok.
1.0
Point
22. Habits: If these are daily habits, they may hamper consistent behavior or communication. You must like someone sober to love them when they’re tipsy.
23.
Happy Person? I’m a real catch and I can make any man happy.
3.0
Points
23. Happy Person? This is a biggie. Another person's happiness is not your responsibility. This can be your undoing to cope with this… you’ll only make excuses for him. Think hard and don't hope to change a man (it's rare).
24.
Humor: No sense of humor or odd/rude personality.
2.0
Points
24. Humor: This is a great common ground. If you can't laugh together, you may not be able to live together (for very long). Marriage is a long journey to take without humor or with an boring, cranky or angry man.
25.
Lifestyle: Our lifestyles differ, but it’s interesting.
1.0
Point
26.
Love at first sight: I’m a believer in first impression POW!
4.0
Points
26. Love at first sight: While first impressions are important, love at first sight is an infantile illusion. It's only love at first sight if you stay together for many happy years, otherwise it was just lust and will be gone like dust.
27.
Punctuality: Not on time, disorganized.
1.0
Point
28.
Messy: Sloppy eating & dressing. I may have to pick up after him.
2.0
Points
28. Manners: Men can be annoying. There are 10 reasons in the book, but he may be able to be domesticated. See if it happens on the second date.
29.
Monogamous: Perceived inability to be exclusive.
5.0
Points
29. Monogamy: This is the #1 thing for long-term relationships – demand it!.
30.
Persona: Lack of self-confidence, poor posture.
2.0
Points
31.
Physique: Too short, too skinny/fat. I like hunks!.
2.0
Points
31. Physique: We all like them buff and hunky. You could overlook a great man by rejecting the outside wrapper. If he's got great qualities, and he likes you, he'll get in shape and you can wear flats. Does Tom Cruise come to mind?.
32.
Politics or Religion: We don't exactly agree here.
1.0
Point
32. Politics or Religion: You should never discuss religion or politics on a first or second date. If you're still attracted, then you can learn to respect their beliefs. Religion can be a deal breaker, but get to know them first.
33.
Possessive: Want to be my sugar daddy tomorrow!
5.0
Points
34.
POW! I can overlook flaws for the cute ones!
4.0
Points
34. He's so cute, eh? That's fine, but if he's under 85%, then you're bound to have problems. Take off the blinders, look closely, and choose wisely.
35.
Prior relationships: Has a bad ex, she was a real beeatch!
2.0
Points
35. Prior Relationships: This can tell a lot about how he was with another woman. It takes two to make a marriage AND get a divorce. If he has children, he should treat her with respect regardless of his past with her. He has to let any prior anger go to move forward with you. Dig deep on this one as there are two sides to every story.
36.
Profession: I can't relate to his job or industry.
1.0
Point
37.
Pushover: I'll probably run over him, he's way too nice.
1.0
Point
37. Pushover: Nice guys finish first in a marathon, and marriage is a long trip to take with a mean man. How does he treat others? What is his great ambition in life? You may be looking for something that will bite you in the ass in the long run.
38.
Social: He wants to date me via texting - call me already!
1.0
Point
39.
Transportation: He drives a clunker, weird car (Cube, hotrod).
1.0
Point
40.
Truth: Fudge age, profession, finances, accomplishments.
8.0
Points
41.
Worldly: Not traveled or doesn’t care about global issues.
1.0
Point
42.
Yes, Dear! Don't think he knows or ever uses these words.
2.0
Points
42. Yes, Dear! If he can’t say it, then he needs obedience training – check with your local Petco for courses.
End
All done! Click WWLS for his Score & Lucille's Lesson.
0.0

"What would Lucille Say?"

WWLS
Click for Score & Lesson
Click to Re-Calculate

Your Dating Rating

99

Lucille's Lesson


Tips